After 50 long days, Mason was finally discharged on November
9, 2009. Because we both spent the first three weeks together
with Mason and nearly a month switching off between the hospital
and home with Reilly, we were extremely happy to finally take Mason
home and have our family together under one roof. While it was exhilarating
to leave the confines of the transplant unit, the mixed emotions
were somewhat overwhelming. We were so happy to take Mason home,
but we were also leaving the place where the nurses, doctors, therapists,
specialists, etc had cared so greatly for Mason.
It is impossible to spend so much time that close to such great
and skilled people and not become close to them. We were also in
some ways terrified that we no longer had the immediate safety of
the hospital and the assurance that if something was wrong help
was only a button ring away. It didn’t matter that we had
grown completely accustomed to caring for Mason; his medication
regiment, his shots, his skin issues, vomiting, etc….all of
that was second nature. We had been doing it ourselves with the
supervision of the nursing staff for some time now. It was the loss
of our safety net that scared us.
When we left A.I. DuPont on November 9th, we knew that we would
need to come back many more times for follow-up care. We also knew
that there was high probability that Mason would be readmitted if
he experienced any setbacks in his recovery. We did not think we
would be back on 3A just 2 days later. Sarah had taken him to his
first follow up clinic visit and Mason was running a fever...the
first one since his initial admission. They admitted him and ran
every test for infection, virus, etc. and everything came back negative.
This was our first dose of reality.
We were back in the hospital for only 48 hours or so, but the impact
of Mason coming home only to go back to the hospital was very difficult
for Reilly. Mason’s initial inpatient stay was difficult for
Reilly, but he was so strong. Being able to see Mason and us through
SKYPE
really provided some security. We had done everything we could to
prepare Reilly for Mason’s stay in the hospital, but we did
not make sure he was ready for the possibility that Mason would
need to go back into the hospital. That is why this readmission
was especially hard for him. He was not prepared to go to school
a few mornings after Mason came home and have his brother be gone
when he came home…AGAIN. When Mason had his seizure on day
4, the night before Reilly had said to his Nana “I don’t
want Mason to go back to the hospital”. This was BEFORE anything
had happened. These two brothers have such an incredible connection,
and Reilly is truly Mason’s angel.
Once we were home again, we were managing approximately 17-20
doses of medications per day, probably 2-3 episodes of vomiting,
pain management, and reintegration into Reilly’s life. Needless
to say, day to day life was challenging, but we were so thrilled
to be home in time for Thanksgiving. We have always valued the family
aspect of Thanksgiving, but we found this particular holiday to
be very emotional. We were able to really reflect on the true things
we were really thankful for in our lives. To have both boys home,
both sets of grandparents, Uncle Geoff and Aunt Deb and our new
baby niece Avery all together was simply AMAZING. We were all overwhelmed
with emotions and very gracious of the support we had from our entire
family over a very challenging couple of months.
Over the next few weeks we had to tackle Mason’s difficulty
gaining weight. He was only tolerating some stage 2 fruits and vegetables
and we were feeding him regularly during the day as well as 2 times
a night, but we were still unable to get the needed 30 oz of formula/fluids
he needed. During a clinic visit when he was 9 months old he was
15 lbs, 10ozs, and the same weight he was at his 4 month well baby
check up. On December 8th, we were readmitted again. This time we
were faced with the decision of inserting a nasal-gastric tube for
feeding. We had been trying to put this off for good, but it was
apparent that he needed help gaining weight. We placed the tube,
stayed in the hospital for 3 days and then came home to manage the
feedings with the help of home care. It was very difficult to keep
Mason from tugging at the tube. We had to re-tape the tube to Mason’s
face many times and deal with multiple vomiting issues due to the
tube feeding volume and the small size of his belly. We HATED the
tube and so did Mason.
On December 12th, only 4 days after having the tube placed, he
pulled it out himself. We were able to convince Dr Kolb to temporarily
refrain from putting the tube back in, and like that, Mason began
to take in more fluids and SLOWLY began to gain some weight. In
conjunction with the medicinal and nutritional components of Mason’s
home care, we also began continued Physical and Occupational therapy
at home at the end of November. When Mason was admitted for transplant
he was 6 ½ months old and his physical development was evaluated
at 0-1 month. He could not lift his head, roll over, or tolerate
any tummy time. He was in so much pain that he physically shut down.
By the time we left the hospital, Mason was a little over 8 months
old. As a result of in-patient PT and OT therapy; Mason was sitting
with support, lifting his head up, doing mini pushups, and rolling
a couple of times.
We really began to see significant changes and progress in Mason
once he began gaining weight and started his continued at-home therapy.
By Christmas, he was much stronger and sitting on his own, but we
still used a Boppy pillow for security. By January he was able to
sit without support and began to bear weight on his legs. By February
he was rolling from front to back and back to front and engaging
in more interactive play with his therapists and his brother Reilly.
By Mason’s 1st birthday, he was able to stand while holding
onto furniture for a couple of seconds. He was now evaluated at
10 months for gross motor skills and 4 months for fine motor skills.
He was making such vast improvements in such a short period of time.
We knew with continued support and therapy, Mason was going to excel
at a very fast rate. The fact that he loved therapy and his therapists
was also very important. We were able to see that his social and
verbal skills were improving. He was beginning to say words like
"Dada," "kitty cat," and "again."
It was great to see that Mason’s relative seclusion in the
hospital and during home recovery was not keeping his social development
at bay. He clearly loves being around other people. We are now able
to do normal every day activities like going to the grocery store,
having friends over for a visit, and going to a restaurant.
In the months since Mason’s first birthday, he has continued
to make gigantic strides in his physical development. He has finally
begun crawling. For the longest time, Mason was so close to crawling.
On the first day that Sarah took him to a Gymboree class, he began
crawling as soon as he was placed on the mat with other children.
He has not looked back. Once Mason quickly mastered crawling, he
quickly began cruising around all of the living room furniture as
well. He quickly took his newly improved standing skills to the
rolling walker and is now roaming around the house and back yard.
Another area we have seen great advances in is Mason’s dentition.
Back on September 8th 2009, Mason had his first 2 teeth break through.
It happened to be the same day that Mason had his central line placed
in preparation for his chemotherapy. We didn’t see any additional
teeth break through for months. The first teeth that came through
were Mason’s bottom incisors. As we were further educated
about Mason’s disorder, we learned that late dentition, malformed
dentition, or no primary dentition were possible side effects of
the improperly functioning osteoclasts present in MIOP.
Through the entire process, the top incisors were extremely swollen
and looked like they were ready to break through; however, we saw
no additional teeth until after his 1st birthday. As Mason’s
bones continued to transform and at about the same time his cyclosporine
doses were being reduced, we began to see new teeth break through.
By May 2009, Mason had 7 (and almost 8) well formed normal looking
teeth.
A day we were eagerly awaiting was our initial orthopedic consult
with the doctor that would continue to follow Mason’s case
as his bones continued to reform and grow. On May 13th, 2009, Mason
had his follow up visit with Dr. William Mackenzie at A.I DuPont.
He had X-rays taken on his legs, arms, hips, hands, and neck. We
were not the only people excited to see the new X-rays, Dr. Kolb
(Mason’s transplant doctor) was also excited enough to see
his development that he came to the orthopedic unit when we were
there to see the films as well. Back at diagnosis, seeing Mason’s
X-rays was pretty much the devastating blow and realization that
our son had a serious disease.
Seeing his new X-rays along side of his diagnosis X-rays (click
on picture at right) was equally as moving in a positive way. Mason
is seeing normal new bone growth. Simply amazing!!!!!!! Wow!!!!
It is difficult to put into words what it really felt like to see
those new films. I think Dr. Mackenzie’s quote was, “I
think his bones look phenomenal,” and Dr. Kolb said, “Yeah,
that looks pretty cool.” It brought tears to our eyes in the
hospital, and we sat and cried together that night after putting
the kids to bed. Again, simply amazing.
In June 2010, we were able to enjoy a much-needed family vacation
in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Mason and Reilly enjoyed their
family, the pool, the beach, and had a great time. At the end of
July, Mason started walking (see video at right,) and is now unstoppable.
On July 28th, he marked his 300th day post-transplant, and on July
29th his port was removed - a small port used for transfusions and
infusions, now no longer needed. While everything is on a positive
note, as a mother I am struggling with the emotions that i pushed
aside for so long.
FEBRUARY 20, 2012
It is really hard to believe it has been so long since we added up to date information to let everybody know where Mason is today. So much
of the past year to a year and a half has been spent just enjoying our
family and appreciating just how fortunate we are that Mason has had
such a positive and successful transplant. Where Mason is today both
physically & medically is nothing short of a miracle. Quite honestly,
looking back at the moments in time we captured in our descriptions
here in Mason's story really puts things into perspective. Mason
would never be developmentally where he is today without the support he
received.
After coming home from the hospital, Mason received continued
treatment from his dedicated Physical and Occupational therapists.
For just over two years, Shonali Jog and Courtney Barrett have worked
continuously to keep Mason in line with his milestone developments.
He has now reached or surpassed all of his developmental milestones
and as of Feb 2012, he has been successfully discharged from both
therapy programs. Thank you to Shonali and Courtney. Without your love
and dedication, Mason would not be where he is today.
One of the other challenges of having a young child receive a stem
cell transplant is the complete reset of the immunization schedule.
Once Mason came home and continued to get healthier, he had to begin
the process of reintroducing his entire immunization program.
Everything he had received prior to transplant was null and void
because his entire immune system was brand new. Over the past two
years Mason has followed the modified immunization schedule for
transplanted children.
In February 2012, he had his 3 year annual check up at his
pediatrician and received immunizations that now put him right on
schedule with where he should be for a completely normal 3 year old
boy. Other items of note from his routine checkup include a weight of
29.5 lbs (25%) and height 35" (5%). As a side effect of his
condition, Mason's height has always been off the charts low.
However, we learned after an endocrinologist visit that his growth
hormone levels were normal. Because of that, we accepted that Mason
was more than likely going to be very small....after all he really
didn't have much family height to rely on in the first place.
Therefore, it was kind of nice to see that Mason was just cracking the
lower boundary of the growth charts at his 3 year check-up. Mason's
hearing and vision are both normal. Cognitively, Mason is speaking in
complex sentences and continues to become more independent with daily
dressing and self care! Actually he is quite stubborn when it comes
to his own independence
Over the past two years the frequency of Mason's necessary medical
care has virtually disappeared. What were once routine visits for
transplant follow-up has now become an annual follow-up. There were
numerous trips to monitor improvements in ongoing eye issues and the
changes as Mason's new cells continued to remold his bones. Today,
the only medical follow-up that Mason receives is periodic ophthalmology
and orthopedic care. At his last eye exam with Dr Jin, there was no
longer any real noticeable nystagmus or drifting in his left eye. More
notably though is the fact that Mason is no longer exhibiting any
nearsightedness in his left eye either. He has gone from needing
glasses prior to transplant, to continued post transplant
nearsightedness, to now where he is NO LONGER nearsighted!!!
It's difficult to decide which part of Mason's progress amazes us the
most. Mason's blood counts, vision, bone growth, and physical
development are all normal but what he has experienced and gone
through during his journey has been anything but normal. Looking back
at the journey can bring tears to our eyes. Thank you everybody for
all of your support and love. Keep an eye out for a photo montage to
see where Mason has been over the past year or two. |